Great kissing isn’t about technique alone. It’s about presence, emotional intelligence, and how you respond to your partner in the moment. From body awareness to pacing and desire, these unexpected signs reveal what actually makes someone a great kisser and why people want to come back for more.

The Coital Alignment Technique (CAT) is a simple upgrade to the missionary position that increases clitoral stimulation and can make orgasms easier to achieve. Instead of traditional thrusting, CAT uses slow, intentional rocking to keep consistent pressure on the clitoris. As a sex therapist, I recommend CAT for couples who want better sex, deeper intimacy, and more reliable pleasure. It’s an anatomy-focused technique that helps partners feel more connected while boosting orgasm potential.

A clear, nonjudgmental overview of the home-wrecker kink, including why taboo fantasies can feel so powerful, the psychological factors behind them, and practical guidance for exploring this desire safely and ethically. Learn how to distinguish fantasy from real-world behavior, engage in healthy communication, and approach kink exploration with awareness and consent.

Sexual compatibility isn’t some magical spark, it’s something you build together. How you think about sex, whether it’s fixed or something you can grow, shapes desire, connection, and satisfaction. Let’s break down the psychology of sexual compatibility and share practical ways to keep your intimate life thriving.

Discover how physical and sexual touch shape your relationships on a biological level. Let’s breakdown down how oxytocin, co-regulation, and nervous system responses help you feel closer, safer, and more connected to the people you love.

Undressing is often treated as a logistical step: a quick transition between kissing and whatever comes next. But in reality, undressing someone slowly and intentionally is a powerful form of foreplay—one that engages the mind, the nervous system, and the senses.

If you’ve ever sent your partner a meme that made you think of them, a TikTok that made you snort-laugh, or even a random reel because “this is so us,” congratulations — you’ve pebbled. You might not have known there was a word for it, but you’ve been doing it all along.

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