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Welcome to Ask Gigi, a column where psychosexual therapist, Gigi
Engle, answers your most intimate questions and explores a range of
sexual health topics. .
What’s the difference between degradation kink and actual disrespect?
Degradation play is one of the most misunderstood aspects of BDSM. This piece explores the difference between consensual humiliation and genuine disrespect, why communication and emotional safety matter so deeply in kink, and how trust shapes healthy power exchange dynamics.
Why BDSM can feel so emotionally intimate
BDSM can feel unexpectedly emotional, and there’s a reason for that. This piece explores how trust, communication, and the nervous system come together to create a sense of connection that goes deeper than many people anticipate.
Understanding ownership kinks and why we might have them
Exploring an ownership kink doesn’t mean giving up your independence—it’s a way to understand your desires on a deeper psychological level. Let’s break down why power-exchange dynamics feel so magnetic, especially for people who are strong, self-reliant, and craving a place to let go. Learn how trust, negotiation, and emotional safety turn ownership kink into a powerful tool for intimacy and self-discovery.
