Ask Gigi

Welcome to Ask Gigi, a column where psychosexual therapist, Gigi
Engle, answers your most intimate questions and explores a range of
sexual health topics. .

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How to ask for what you want in bed without it feeling awkward

Talking about sex can feel vulnerable, but asking for what you want is one of the healthiest skills you can build in intimacy. This piece explores how to communicate desire with warmth, clarity, and confidence so sex feels more connected, collaborative, and satisfying for everyone involved.

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The psychology behind slow undressing for increased intimacy

Undressing is often treated as a logistical step: a quick transition between kissing and whatever comes next. But in reality, undressing someone slowly and intentionally is a powerful form of foreplay—one that engages the mind, the nervous system, and the senses.

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