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Welcome to Ask Gigi, a column where psychosexual therapist, Gigi
Engle, answers your most intimate questions and explores a range of
sexual health topics. .

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Is it chemistry or attachement anxiety?

Have we confused emotional intensity with chemistry? This week, we're exploring why uncertainty can feel intoxicating, how anxiety gets mistaken for attraction, and what healthy chemistry actually looks like.

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How to try fisting

Fisting is often misunderstood as extreme, but at its core, it’s an exercise in trust, communication, and intentional intimacy. This piece explores why people are curious about it, how to approach it safely, and what it can teach us about connection, consent, and slowing down in our sex lives.

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The truth about sexual compatibility 

Sexual compatibility isn’t some magical spark, it’s something you build together. How you think about sex, whether it’s fixed or something you can grow, shapes desire, connection, and satisfaction. Let’s break down the psychology of sexual compatibility and share practical ways to keep your intimate life thriving.

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