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Welcome to Ask Gigi, a column where psychosexual therapist, Gigi
Engle, answers your most intimate questions and explores a range of
sexual health topics. .
How to ask for the pleasure you want when the ‘giving’ starts to feel one-sided
Feeling generous in bed can be deeply pleasurable, but when giving starts to feel one-sided, resentment often follows. Many people struggle to ask for more because they fear awkwardness, rejection, or seeming needy. In this piece, we explore why reciprocity matters, how to talk about wanting to feel desired, and why asking for your own pleasure is not selfish but an essential part of intimacy.